Help, I need some advice. Tomorrow is W's b-day. She and the kids are away at a campground with MIL and FIL. I told W that I wouldn't be able to make it there because I've got a big project I have to finish up for work. W asked if I was coming and I said, sorry, no, I've got to get this work done. She responded, Oh well, I don't care, I'm just weking because of the kids.

In short, I'm really not going to be able to make it and I'm wondering if I should call or text to wish her a happy b-day. Thoughts? Advice?


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13