I have to admit, yesterday when me and my WAW interacted it was the first time and moved from the sad stage of depression to the anger stage. As I tried to talk to her and be nice and cordial, all she had in response was bitterness and attitude. For the first time I though "who the hell does she think she is to treat me like this" and "I am better than this, have pride and refuse to be a doormat" . I am so glad I came to these emotions because it has helped with my detachment. Although I want more than anything for her to realize my changes and recommitment to her. At this point I refuse to be walked on and treated as if this is ALL my fault. She clearly has not dealt with her issues, therefore even if we did come together for reconciliation, she is not ready and nor am I.
It is funny how things work themselves out. Still praying she sees the light but prepared to move on........
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13
