Thanks for the lecture, you are right, I need it! I know intellectually that I need to detach, but knowing it and doing it are two different things. Plus, in my case, part of what got us to her MLC was essentially that I was detached and married to an extremely stressful work situation. So, she because lonely and the walls were up when things got better at work. So, I don't know exactly what to do every day, but I do know you are all correct that I need to let tat-boy go.
Taking my kids to church now. I will pray for all of you, you have been such a blessing in my time of need.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
