T,
I'm glad he's thawing out a bit and reconnecting w/the boys. Reconnection will be the exact opposite of how he entered into mlc.

Please take some time and read the thread that I started many years on reconnection. I think it will help you better understand and give you a little bit of peace. If you can't located it, I'll be happy to drop it into your thread for you.

Enjoy your day.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.