post-D with WAW

[azguy]

Oh, I forgot one odd interaction that regularly happens between us the last several months. At the beginning of the year I adopted two young cats with my S. My XW had taken the cats to her place over Christmas (at my encouragement) and I had decided the house was lonely without them.

So whenever I travel, I make sure to have other friends to stop by and check on them, or just make sure they have enough food and water for short trips. She almost always asks whether they should look in on them. My answer is the same. They'll have food and water (and someone to check on them) but feel free to stop by and give them some company. They usually do. I don't want to read much into this, but I've actually been surprised that she does this. The negative part of me thinks she is just worried I'm so absent minded the cats are going to starve sooner or later. Anyway, odd detail, I occasionally obsess over.