Tomorrow is my oldest child's 18th birthday and I am so proud of the young man he's becoming.

Is it normal to feel angry that H is not here to make sure our boy has a great day?

I think more and more of him in a hateful way, but then I think of the wonderful H and dad he was for 16 years of that boys life and I truly feel bad for him....but we're not even àn afterthought to him anymore.

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending