WHAT I NEED TO DO: Back off Give tons of space Art of silence Engaged listening Stop trying to control the outcome Don't react poorly Don't try to fix her Validate her Let her find her own solutions Give her time Give her consistency Let go of needing to know why
WHAT I MAY GET: Her to come to me on her own Her to trust me
ALSO: Don't lose hope Don't think it will be a quick fix Have no expectations Recognize the blessings in my life Act as if she is not coming back Constantly fine tune based on current realities
REMEMBER: NO pressure about OP Maintain emotional control
