Ok, sweetie, strap yourself in, you are going to hear from me, New York style. LOL!
J, do not say another word to your wife, please.
You keep trying to fix her, man. You told her to talk to her therapist, to google an ea, then you considered telling her about using om as a crutch. Stop it.
You said what you said. She heard it.
No need to say another word.
Let her sit with all this, J.
She is still seeing you as the same JP.
Become something different, for you.
And that will give you the best hope of something different with her.
Get back on your path. Leave her to hers.
JP, I am not going anywhere. Cuz in Brooklyn, there aint no such thing as quitting.
This is a journey she has to take. She has to. And she has to do it on her own. Because if you interfere with it and she comes back out of guilt or pity, where does that leave you?
Be the person you are meant to be, my friend.
Become the kind of man who allows people to figure out their life on their own. Become the kind of man who is confident and strong.
Be that man each day. Some days you'll make it, some you wont, but, let it be the goal each day.
