Yes JBolt, it is f'd up. Part of my issue with therapy in this situation is this 800 lb gorrilla is there and we are not talking about it. And, everyone is advising me to not say anything. And believe me, I understand why. But do I never say anything? If things get better, this affects my trust level, how can I not say anything? Do I just wait for her to bring it up? I am praying and trust that things happen in time, but I am struggling with this big time.

I am probably not going to say anything at this point because the pics are now over a month old, but as you said, it is F'd up!

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"