Cadet, I fully agree with you about most LBS have moved on. While most of us here on the forum seriously hope their other halves come back and to reconcile, by that time, we probably have moved on and no longer have the same love or want of the partner anymore. Only so much crap you can take.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.