Help! Patience is tough

[jaytee35]

Need some humble opinions here! Just had to stop by the house and drop off something to the WAW as well as pick up my mail. Wife is still extremely bitter. I came over with a positive attitude and asked if she wanted to grab some coffee and just catch up...she responded hastily with "I have nothing to say to you" she was mad because I was originally contesting the divorce. She stated that "after what I did with the lawyers" she has no interest in communicating with me. I then went into the house with her to gather my mail at which that point she looked at me and said if I continue to stop by unannounced or try and communicate with her she is going to call the cops. I don't understand why she is so bitter!!! I have givin her no reason to threaten me with the cops. So when I was leaving, I asked her to be honest with me. Because of the suspicions and evidence of interactions with another man. I asked if the real reason she filed for divorce was because of him....she responded with "I can have friends" ...I just do not know what to make of everything. Mainly the bitterness still. She claims she left me so she can find herself again and be "happy". Well it does not look like she is happy at all. Just extremely angry still. Can anyone give me some insight to the psychology of her mindset right now.....I am really trying to move on but this is tough knowing she is having interactions with another man. Please help