It sounds like your W wants to maintain family connections even if she isn't ready to come back. It could go on this way for a while during which time she figures things out.
I'm glad you are doing things with your boys such as the men's breakfast at church. That's so good for them to see other good role models besides you and to see you keep up good R's with other people.
Good work!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway