Ok that's good Kenva. You told her she's in a driver seat, IMO don't repeat that again. Just let her be if she's gonna file you can't stop it. If she threat you again that she's gonna file just say do what you have to do.

My last argument with my w about filing she said she will file. That's what I said, and I also said but she doesn't have to we can separate and file when we both have the money but do what you have to do.

Yep the coldness, I know it's hard but try not to pay attention to it. That's what I keep reminding myself too. Focus on your s tomorrow....I've been focusing on my 3. Today I'm taking them out while w goes out with her co-workers, no biggie for me they do this once a month. If we ever to R this is fine she needs to have a life of her own.

Hey card game sounds good tonight man...and few brewski''s with the boys? smile

Newman


me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.