Damaging to kids who experience such? X's mother had retired FBI agent Freud DS of X's maternal grandfather physically kidnap X and her brother from their school in St Thomas and hide X and her brother in what X calls a "safe house" in the US until legal action could be completed and things settled down. I just had a chill as I realized X is using the same L her mother did.

I honestly don't have much hope for C to facilitate a resolution. OMH is fairly level headed but he is arrogant and described as "never wrong".

What about the fact that 5 children who have had each other in their lives for 4 years (1/2 the life of the youngest) are at this moment being forced to not see one another?

DS and DD both "avoid the wrath" of their mother and I have seen DS tear up at the mere raising of her voice.

At least fiancé now understands why the children are saying they want to live with their mother as she opines they don't stand a chance against her venomous spew. She said she's never seen anything like it.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13