Gotta agree with uRw on this one: let it out and let others in for sure. It's logical that you will feel things swelling up inside you, because you don't have that outlet that you used to have to talk about your feelings with your partner. People get (pardon the expression) emotionally constipated. There's more room outside than in so by reaching out to friends you're feelings can be validated and you then have the ability to move forward!
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13