I wasn't going to bring it up, just not delete the email. For the record, I don't think he is interested in her, but part of her larger obsession right now. Don't know for sure.
What I was thinking of doing with MIL was calling her back today and thanking her for her concern about W and us, and her support. But, remind her again on how important it is to keep this between us, and that there isn't a lot she can do other than pray for us, and be available to watch our kids if we want to get away . Good strategy?
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"