You are definitely awesome Raine!!!

Glad you are holding up well. It is very easy to over do it, so be kind to yourself. Dishes can sit, laundry can wait. It's way more important to get some rest when you can, and take care of you smile

So much of what you write in your posts resonates with me. Often times I think, "Yes, I could have written that myself!"

This is tough, tough stuff.

But it is true, we are becoming stronger, wiser, more humble human beings. I too feel like I would never take anything for granted in a R again. I also feel that I would never center my life around any future R, giving up other things in my life. Even now, I have a life that H is a part of, but not the center. Big difference.

Live and learn, right?

I had to chuckle when the one OW gave your H a baby present - what??? These women are just too much, dripping with desperation. Though you'll be glad to know that the airplane that OW bought S4 mysteriously ended up in the garbage can at my work the other day lol!

Hope you have a great Saturday smile


Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."