If time is growing short on making reservations, then get the brochures out or pull the informaiton up on the web and be looking at the information when she happens to be around. Casually mention some dates and ask her for her opinion and she what she has to say.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
