Because for over 2 years he didn't care about how I was doing or my kids. It's too late for that.
So you are going to let his actions dictate yours?
Trust me.. I get it.. You know my sitch and you know we share the similarity with our WAS abandoning us completely....
... but as someone who also just was contacted by her, I can tell you that it is an awesome feeling treating her the exact opposite way she treated me.
Not in a "ha ha" or a "I'm better than you" way.. but I just sleep better at night.
I'm not telling you what to do.. I'm truly not.
But I want you to ask yourself what your motivations are because they don't sound like they are from a perspective of protecting you heart...
... it sounds like you are saying what he deserves.. and that's not really your place.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
