Thanks for the advice Spartan. It's true. I don't really think she is or would do anything on purpose to hurt the kids. However I don't think she realizes how difficult this is going to be. Her parents D when she was young and have always remained really close even true friends. I have always thought that was odd but oh well. But this is the picture that she has of D.
Moving on to today. W shows me a place that she thinks she is going to move to. Asks my opinion. I say it seems fine.
Fast forward to tonight.... I initiate and we ML. I have had several discussions on here whether that is a good or bad thing to do. My decision for a while now is that if we can ML without really messing with my mind then I will do it. The odd thing this time was that she would not kiss me. She actually said that she would prefer to not kiss. I just said ok and we continued. At the start she said that we probably shouldn't do it because "this doesn't make things any easier".
I definitely don't think this changes anything but it was nice to be close to her again.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.