Portia, I’ve just caught up on your sitch, and find lots of similarities between your SO and my H. I also have very little contact and long distance situation, and it’s been almost 10 months now. He also said that he wants to be friends, that he loves me and doesn’t want completely loose me. And he attempted to have an affair with somebody who was not even close comparable to me, except she is a lot younger. But, I would call it affair down.
There were times when I didn’t hear from my H for 3 weeks and more. And then he would find some silly matter to send me an e-mail. I agree with snodderly and the rest here that you should give it more time.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
