Need an opinion here please. As of right now the divorce settlement is written and ready to be signed between me an my waw. Her attorney has informed mine that she agrees with the decree. I am thinking about just flat out not signing it but also not contesting the divorce....so basically just letting the case sit until the judge forces the issue in hopes to buy more time in this DB process. Does anyone know if I can do that in NYS. And what are opinions on this? Would it be perceived by my wife in a negative way and break all the rules of doing a 180, GAL, and going dark...LRT?????

Has anyone tried this technique and if so did it work out in your favor?


Me 33
W 32
Married 10/13/12
WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13
Divorce filed 2/13/13
Seperated 3/1/13 till ?????????
Divorced 5/28/13