Almost two years and still stuck in limbo

[newman7977]

Thanks guys for your opinions and thoughts. Like I said before, I will admit exposing the EA is NOT a DB way and I didn't disclose to get a debate about it or convince others to do so. It is for background purposes so I can get an accurate advice.

Sandi I'm reading your thread again and will re-read what you posted in here. In your thread I can picture what you H actions while you were fighting the temptation to contact OM.

It could be as small as offering you a popcorn and watch tv, in your feelings that made you cringe and that was a tremendous pursuit. I got to watch myself, I do those things up until recently. Everything you said on the boards they're exact words my w told me.

Clearly your H did some actions and changes. That's what I got to do...I was over doing it. I've got to remind myself step on the sideline and just watch her work through it. I have to re-read your post here, I saw some gems that I could use.

Thanks again Sandi. Pls come back if you think of something else your H did or said that turn things around.

Newman