Feel like the story of the little red hen. Hen does all the work. No one wants to help but then want some of the bread. I do everything for the kids. H thinks it's ok to reap the rewards of being with them. Now I know better than to speak ugly about h in front of kids and I will allow him to see them whenever. Someone else said about the choice when S is having an A.

Be the better choice or ask if he is going to be so disrespectful to our family to please leave us alone. This is my delimma....

D called & text h last night. No reply from him. Usually he does. I did ask him why he did not reply. He will ignore. Do I repeat my request? Do I leave it?

M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13