sometimes its just so draining.. and I never signed up for this or claimed to be a strong person. ((HUGS))
I am glad you got validated by EE people. Like me, you need to remove yourself from her emotions/anger, etc.. and just let it be. Its sooo tough not to get baited into it.
I hope you still view yourself at the door to piecing... I guess in a few days you will be able to know? (based on how she is??)
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)