She back to quiet mode. Got lots of good txt and phone support from my EE experience today. It is a mood disorder for sure. For some reason after 4 months I thought I was in clear from this crap. From the support I reviewed they made me realize my comments do not justify this punishment . That she has to start owning her emotions and not to put them on me. It is draining. It also turns it on and off. In other words she isn't cold and quiet to kids. Just me. Thx for reaching out . Not matter what my options are no different from yours. Accept it, change it, or leave it. I'll continue to detach , gal, and be the best Dad there is. Day of baseball tomorrow. With kids now this y I fight the fight