[uRworthy]

Hey In it, I know this is so hard.

Just a couple of things, if it's ok.

Going dark is something you do for you. It should never be used to get a reaction from your spouse or as a tactic because it will backfire.

Having said that, it really is important for you to do what is best for you without regard to what you h might say or feel.

In it, it doesnt serve you well to worry about whether ow knows or not. Who cares about her? She is nothing but a bandaid.

You just keep putting the focus on you and your children and your baby. Let him and her blow in the wind right now.

In it, have you thought at all about me and Cat's earlier posts to you?

Are there things about you that you would like to work on or change?