I've thought about contacting OM, but I don't really see what good it would do.
He's not married, no kids.
She has already filed for divorce over 4 months ago
He is just a symptom to the problem.
I guess if she hadnt filed yet and this was happening before then I'd probably do it, but giving the circumstances I don't think there is any reason for me to do so


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it