I've thought about contacting OM, but I don't really see what good it would do. He's not married, no kids. She has already filed for divorce over 4 months ago He is just a symptom to the problem. I guess if she hadnt filed yet and this was happening before then I'd probably do it, but giving the circumstances I don't think there is any reason for me to do so
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it