Take the hits and keep moving forward.

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Messaging me quite late and even got a 'Night night'. I nearly fell off my chair!

^^ This made me chuckle. I haven't been following your sitch and happened to see this thread and I like what I'm reading!

I often wonder about going dim too. Even before he moved out I promised myself I would not initiate texts or calls at least for a while. I decided that not to play games but I really wanted him to feel my absence. So far I've been true to the decision and haven't initiated any text. All the texts are from him but mostly about one of our two cats he's taking to his place, purchases he made before and being sent to my place etc. He did ask me if I was going to a charity walk for his siter tomorrow and I said yes. I saw him signing up for it right after. I too am trying not to read into anything but it's hard not to speculate things.

I agree with AS about your earlier texts to your wife when she show interest and seemed to want to talk about the future. I know you were joking but like AS said we take sex very differently than men. I might have taken it the wrong way too if my H asked if I was horny. I might have been upset, actually. Also when she said she was thinking about the future and you said it's tough. Although it is true the future between WAS and LBS is going to be tough, that's what I would want to hear eitehr. Like others said I would have liked you ask me more questions about what I meant. If your wife is a typical girl, we send hints. Even if we try not to send hints because men are not mind readers, we still do because we can't help it!