Do the WAS grieve the relationship at all? or is it grieving only from their point of view (all the bad in the marriage)? It seems they are more relieved than hurting over the loss. I have to wonder b/c my XH went right from our 21 years to OW while we were partially separated and its been 2 years and he's still with her. I really don't know if he grieved. Never acted like it bothered him.
M: 49 H: 49 S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago) M: 21yrs BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months) D: 3/11/11 Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery X: engaged w/OW
