That's [censored]!! I know exactly how you feel and what it comes down to is that your H is selfish. I'm dealing with same thing with my W. Just focus on being the strong support for your kids
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it