Sometimes I think our spouses are so perplexed about it too, that they just look for some small things about us, to make sense of what they are doing. They don't even know.
Exactly. I can only imagine what it must be like to be in that position. To know something isn't "right" and not be able to figure it out. I watched my ex go through that for a long time. Always searching. Eventually she gave up looking and decided to look for a reason to leave. A reason it must be me that was causing it. I suspect she is still trying to figure it out. I've out of the picture for so long now. The sad part is that she will have to find something or somebody else to pour the anger onto without me there. I worry for my kids, but I suspect that it will likely be the OM before long. That's just how it works until they either run out of places/people to blame else look at the real problem. And lets face it. If they could have faced it before, we would not be having this conversation, would we
You're a very strong woman! Be strong and enjoy the time with your kids. They are only that age once and they are worth your time
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
