JP, We have a lot of similarities..I got to check out your thread. I totally understand where you're coming from. I also understand that my w has to realize this all on her own.
Just like you I contacted the OM and his W...I didn't hold back. It was mostly for myself to tell him exactly what I think. It was to get it off my chest. And to convey to him that i will fight for my family. Honestly, I don't regret it. I figure my W already resents me in all of this and just hoping that one day when the fog lifts she will understand what I did.
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.