Hi Cemar,

My H is the one that does get 5 to 6 hours of sleep and I am the one that needs 8 hours or more. I am literally crawling to bed every night and my H is all up and doing his stuff. I don't think is a women or men thing really, I just happen to do a lot more in terms of cleaning and such shores at home after a full day of work at the office, so I am beat at bed time and he is not, so he does not go to bed with me ...EVER.

Cemar, if your wife is very tired by bedtime, can you take over her shores for one day, so she is rested and maybe more receptive to your advances? Just a thought.