It has been a while since my last posting. Upon H's insistance, we are legally separated. A lot of money thrown away on attorneys. However, he has done nothing outlined in the agreement regarding the separation of anything. I am still in possession of everything he owns. H is overseas again and he asked me to email him. Hard to be dark with him. I email him a quick email daily and occassionally he will call. He keeps the conversation very generic but it's like nothing has changed. I have made the mistake of asking about us, and he just says he doesn't know. So, I am backing off carefully. Still emailing so he doesn't feel neglected (his words) but nothing personal.
I just don't know where to go from here. I honestly feel like he cares, but is scared to face his feelings. Has anyone got any advice for me???


Me 46/H 48
M 19/T 20
D 21 Away at College
D 17
PA 9/12
H left 10/23/12