I have accepted it now, I can still see them every second day but I just cant have them sleep over. This is just temporary as it be reviewed in 2 years.
During our whole relationship she has been narcissistic and controlling, and im an easy going guy so it was good for a while. Until the kids came along and everything i did as a father was wrong, so I withdrew.
I have grown as a person from this whole ordeal and am a wonderful father no matter how she views it.
If I stood up to her she would sic the lawyers on me and I dont want to go that route. I dont want her to hold any resentment towards me for fighting 50/50. She is allowing me to see my kids on a frequent basis and I get to live my life without walking on eggshells.
I'll keep working on me and enjoy being with the boys when ever I can.
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.
