i've been trying to figure out what to tell you without imposing my personal ideas on to you.
KG-I support whatever decision you make. You are in such a difficult bind that it leaves me scratching my head.
H n I have been struggling financially for the past 2yrs and every month when the bills come in I know there's always that option that I can just go back to work. But I choose to continue struggling. I believe I will hold more resentment if I work than if I stay home. That's how I weighed my decision.
I'll just leave it at that. Take care of yourself as best you can.
BTW: S4 will continue to go to his private preschool next year and the year after that public school for K. D1 will go to free parent ed that's offered through the city college and hopefully to the private preschool when S4 is in K. By then I hope our financial sitch will be better.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017