wow. a lot going on in your head. kinda like you have a committee.you can continue to grow and care for yourself without the divorce papers. as AS said, divorce isn't the magic bullet. read other's experience who are going through the process. it's not closure.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017