Travel safely. You have a good attitude about things and that will help to carry you through the dark times. Bow ties have been making a comeback for a year or so and I'm sure you looked very nice wearing one. Don't worry about what she thinks of your bow tie...if it makes you happy, wear it!
Your family will be very happy to see you and do plan to do something special w/them this weekend. As for your MIL, it's too bad she finally recognized that her depression was not caused by her late husband. Hopefully she's seeking professional help w/it now.
Again, travel safely and stay positive.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
