Your situation, I think, is especially hard. I'm really impressed at how consistent and patient you're being! I think this is what cat was trying to emphasize, and, if so, I agree.
You're doing great!
H: 38 xW: 38 M: 16 T: 18 S: 9 BD: 2/2012 W moved out 4/2012 D: 11/2012