Guys, this line of thought about the new life with OW being free and fun is something that hits me hard.
To STBX, I represent massive (and I mean massive) debt, crumbling old house, sick elderly parents to care for, teenaged kids, slog, slog slog.
OW, on the other hand, is a private yacht on the mediterranean, a Merc convertible, a new townhouse on the best street in town, no kids, her own successful business, 15 yrs younger, breast implants....
What chance have I got?
Sorry to hijack, but this is a real problem for us all to come to terms with, I think.
