Not fun at all! It's awful! It just drives me crazy that the institution if marriage that is designed to provide stability, support and joy can end up like this.
Did your lawyer comment on the likelihood of your worst case scenarios? Did she think your H would be able to get support?
I also don't want to let it fly under the radar that you've been out of the workforce for quite a while and just went out and got the job you wanted right away -- that's darn impressive!
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015