Another thing I'm not sure how to handle:
We are going back to our MC to deal with the particulars of the separation, etc. I feel that that would be my opportunity to express my true feelings about all of this or do I continue to DB in there? I feel that I would not be being truthful to myself and standing up for the kids if I don't share my feelings. (as of now I am trying not to make him feel guilty about leaving, just going on with life, etc.)

thank you!!
Me 47/H 47
M 19/T 21
S 11
S 11
BD #1: April 2012
H Moved out 11/2012 for 2 months
BD #2: H "can't do this anymore, wants divorce" 4/10/2013
Retrouvaille 4/19/2013