That is the feeling that I foresee for myself. If/when we D I can see me wanting to have no contact at all with W. But, like you, we have kids and she will always be in my life. Maybe that will pass with time.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.