It's amazing. Now that things are officially over both emotionally and legally, new problems come up. Now, I have no interest in communicating with XW at all even about the kids. I would rather go directly through the sources (my girls) than talk to her. I hope that goes away, because XW will always be in my life in some compacity.
BD: 8/20/2012 W Files: 8/23/2012 S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out) D Final: 3/5/2013
That is the feeling that I foresee for myself. If/when we D I can see me wanting to have no contact at all with W. But, like you, we have kids and she will always be in my life. Maybe that will pass with time.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
That is the feeling that I foresee for myself. If/when we D I can see me wanting to have no contact at all with W. But, like you, we have kids and she will always be in my life. Maybe that will pass with time.
I hope so. One of my 180's that I have worked so hard to try to change is selfishness. I feel that it is rearing its ugly head again. The thought of seeing and/or talking to her really bothers me for some reason.
BD: 8/20/2012 W Files: 8/23/2012 S: 8/25/2012 (I moved out) D Final: 3/5/2013
