Lilith !!! That is EXACTLY how I feel. And exactly how my days go too. I just wonder how they are supposed to "miss us" and wonder "how life will be with out us", if we are right there, at their beck & call all the time? What other similarities do we share? How long have you been separated? kids? it would be helpful if you added some details to your signature.

I really like the cake metaphor too. I am trying so hard to not peek & let the cake cook to perfection. I deserve the BEST!!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)