Originally Posted By: tonibertha
Your changes are for YOU, not for your H.


I completely agree.

I was simply speaking within the context of BF's question re. the WAS and the effects of their R with OP...

Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D