He has been, and is, in counseling. He says he knows he has to make his own happiness and that his therapist is helping him find his way. I believe he did not go into her saying, "i want to save my marriage" though. He believe he told her that he is in a lot of pain and that he lost his feelings for me. I don't know if she encouraged the separation, but I think she is encouraging to find what makes him happy.
At Retrouvaille, he asked me if I thought love is a choice (as that was one of the main themes) and I told him why I think it is. I don't believe he believes that.
He won't tell me the details of his sessions nor have I pushed him. I have a therapist, too, and we generally just share the broad strokes, if one of us asks.
Me 47/H 47 M 19/T 21 S 11 S 11 BD #1: April 2012 H Moved out 11/2012 for 2 months BD #2: H "can't do this anymore, wants divorce" 4/10/2013 Retrouvaille 4/19/2013
