My decision:

I'm going to seek full physical custody of my son and allow DD to live with X. I want it scheduled so that X and I have both our children every other weekend.

Reasoning:

L told me DD CAN decide where she lives in approximately two years (when 16-17yrs of age). Most issues/objections have been connected to DD. I have learned DD is being creative with the truth.

My son asked me last August, "Dad, what would you do if you came to pick me up and mom had a gun and wouldn't let me go with you?" I told him I wouldn't let anyone get hurt. I'd leave and return with the police (the law) and get him. In effect, I feel like that's what I'm about to do.


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13