so then they have this big injection of excitement with ow- how the heck do we measure up to the whole "young & no responsibility life - which, by the way, is them visiting someone elses life. hanging out- like a kid. not your house, not your life, not your parents & rules - no participation in the responsibliity aspect. how does one compete with that? we don't i guess.
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IT'S NOT MY FAULT OR MY DOING> HOW THE HECK DO I TURN myself into ole fun machine??? the chores are here- the houses are - the yard & garden is- wtf???
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ow lives near disney- i bet they go tra la around, have loads of laughs - go on rides, $crew til their eyes fall out- and yay- is't sooooooo much FUNNNNN ALLLL THE TIME. NO bills, no chores, no reminders of responsibility- no nothin "real life".
I think about all of this all the time....reality is all these things...mine includes kids too, not sure about yours.
How can they ever wake up and join reality and leave what they are doing behind when they are having soooooooo much fun with noooooo responsibility?
IDK either, and sometimes I think us LBS's are deluding ourselves.
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life